
It’s not the gun, but the person pulling the trigger that’s ultimately guilty of the crime. The same principle applies to credit cards and debt. Who’s really at fault when credit card debt gets out of control? Is it the person swiping the card or the bank that handed it to them? Or perhaps it’s neither. Maybe it all starts at home.
I receive calls and emails from angry parents asking, “Why are you offering credit cards to students? I don’t think that’s very responsible of you.” I must admit, I scratch my head when I hear this, although I do understand that parents want to safeguard their children from life’s many dangers. Being a father myself I certainly want to protect my son from any potential pitfalls, but credit cards are not one of them.
I’ll sit down with Barrett, when he is a little older, and set in motion a plan to ensure he is financially viable, and yes, having a credit card in his name is one way I plan on doing it.
I’ll serve as the co-signer on his credit card so I can monitor the purchases and view the statement activity. I will also have the credit line capped at $500-$1,000 as a precautionary measure. I want him to first learn to be responsible with a small balance before graduating into the world of auto loans or even a mortgage. Your child can gain valuable credit history at an early age and be well on their way to financial freedom with your guidance and watchful eye.
I take my responsibility as a parent seriously. I want the very best for my son as any parent does, which is why when I receive emails claming we are irresponsible for offering credit cards to students I’m bewildered. My Dad took time to explain things to me and ensure I would not get myself into financial trouble. “Pay yourself first” and “spend beneath your means,” were two common threads of wisdom he showered on me. He also eased me along in the world of credit and showed me how to make it work to my advantage.
We send our children to school so they’ll be educated and capable of making intelligent decisions in their lives, but that education begins at home. They look to us for sound advice and guidance. They put their trust in us. I am educated to the facts, and not the negative propaganda surrounding credit cards, which is why my son will be a step ahead of the rest. But it can be lonely being the lead dog. Anyone want to join our team?
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